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The &#;how to&#; of sex positions is imperative for any relationship. Mastering distinct gay sex positions not only heightens the experience but also provides a deeper connection with your partner both literally and figuratively. But before we start, if you&#;ve ever wondered, &#;What&#;s a top or bottom?&#; Don&#;t concern. These terms might be common within the LGBTQ+ community, but not everyday vernacular for everyone else, which is why we&#;ve place together an ever-growing list of LGBTQ+ terminology.
At Bespoke Surgical, we think about sex in completely different ways and by bringing science into sex, a new era of understanding will grant improvement for everyone. Regardless of which gay anal sex positions you examine, itâ€&#x;s important to understand their differences:
- Affect the top and the bottom in different ways
- Bring out both submissive or aggressive characteristics of each person
- Require an understanding of both everyone&#;s positioning (height, penis curvature, and pelvic angle)
Little nuances and adjustments can make all the difference in terms of pleasure vs.
Life on the Bottom
I enjoyed a short-lived career on the bottom. My college boyfriend’s family lived in a duplex on Park Avenue, where we’d often slip away on weekends. Meals were rich and plentiful — foie gras, profiteroles, double magnums of Riesling, etc. — all of which I eagerly imbibed. Following one such decadent feast my freshman year, when we were still very much in the honeymoon phase of our first gay relationship, Dan and I retired to his bedroom and got to work. For weeks we’d been easing into penetration with me on the bottom, but the pain had proven prohibitive. Also at play was acute paranoia of involuntary defecation, something I’d been assured was a common, yet unwarranted, concern of bottoms.
Presumably though, most surveyed hadn’t recently gorged on three helpings of fattened goose liver. It’s complicated to look someone in the eye after shitting their childhood bed — let alone date them for seven more years afterward — but that’s exactly what happened. What didn’t happen — and hasn’t since, really — was me back on the bottom.
• Read next: Bottoming Emojis, Explai Would you describe yourself as douche-curious? Perhaps you’ve been douching for a while but are looking for pointers. However seasoned you are at putting things up your butt, there’s always something new to learn! So we’ve lay together a beginner&#;s guide to anal douching with everything you need to know when you want to commence squirting down below. 😉 Douching is the act of shooting a jet of warm water or a saline answer into the rectum to clean it out before sex. Douching uses several types of devices to achieve this, each referred to as a ‘douche’. We’ll cover these in more detail below. Some people may instead use what’s known as an enema for douching. These are medical devices designed to relieve constipation and are not recommended for douching, as they often verb with a medicated solution to soften stools or utilize a far greater volume of liquid than is required when preparing for anal sex. That’s up to you! Whether you douche or not is entirely up to the individual. Many guys like to douche because it reassures them of no surp I'm Zachary Zane, a sex writer and ethical manwhore (a fancy way of saying I sleep with a lot of people, and I'm very, very open about it). Over the years, I've had my fair disseminate of sexual experiences, dating and sleeping with hundreds of people of all genders and orientations. In doing so, I've learned a thing or two about navigating issues in the bedroom (and a bunch of other places, TBH). I'm here to answer your most pressing sex questions with thorough, actionable advice that isn't just "communicate with your partner," because you realize that already. Verb me anything—literally, anything—and I will gladly Sexplain It. To submit a question for a future column, fill out this form. Dear Sexplain It, I’m gay but have zero long for to have anal sex with more men. I’ve topped and bottomed a few times with a few unlike guys and include never enjoyed it. Honestly, I can’t stop thinking about shit when doing anal. I’m terrified I’m going to accidentally poop on a guy, and when I top, I’m worried I’m going to
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