How to attract gay tops
What Gay and Bi Men Really Want
Are physical and sexual attraction the most appealing qualities in a partner? Or are unseen qualities like good manners and reliability the most attractive?
Following on from his analyze into what straight women want and what straight men want, D&M Research’s managing director Derek Jones has taken the next sensible step with his latest study into what gay and bi(sexual) men want.
In order to dig deeper and illustrate out a right list of turn-ons and turn-offs for gay and bi men, Derek once again used of the Im-Ex Polygraph method. He originally devised this method of analysis to distinguish what people say they want from brands, products or services from what they really want by comparing stated versus derived measures of importance.
Qualities the gay and bi men said they desired in a partner (‘stated’) were compared to the qualities present in example celebrities they nominated as attractive (‘implied’). The identical comparison was made between stated and implied negative qualities, to determine what attributes are really the biggest turn-offs.
From The Host Of HBO'S The Sex Inspectors…
The Body Language Guide That Will Help You Meet & Attract Guys That Twist You On.
Learn which gestures, postures and expressions attract the kind of gay men you wish to connect with–all based on peer-reviewed studies done by leading psychologists in non-verbal communication.
Here's a sample of what you'll learn:
1. The best way to approach him if he’s not glancing back at you.
This includes which angle to approach him (NEVER head on) and the way you should smile when you approach him (there are 2 aspects of a glow that create warm, positive feelings in men).
2. How to get him to look in your eyes once you start a conversation.
If you don’t earn him to watch in your eyes QUICKLY, OFTEN, and CONSISTENTLY he’s going to fall into the Friends Zone faster than you can say, “I drink too much.” This section details the Align/Direct/Reinforce method of making it happen.
3. Use your hands to produce a visual pathway.
Studies using hidden cameras show that romantically interested men unconsciously use their hands to create a gaze path
March 02,
The Epidemic of
Gay LonelinessBy Michael Hobbes
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I used to get so ecstatic when the meth was all gone.
This is my partner Jeremy.
When you verb it, he says, you have to keep using it. When it&#x;s gone, it&#x;s like, &#x;Oh good, I can go back to my life now.&#x; I would wait up all weekend and go to these sex parties and then undergo like shit until Wednesday. About two years ago I switched to cocaine because I could work the next day.
Jeremy is telling me this from a hospital bed, six stories above Seattle. He won&#x;t tell me the exact circumstances of the overdose, only that a stranger called an ambulance and he woke up here.
Jeremy is not the noun I was expecting to have this conversation with. Until a few weeks ago, I had no idea he used anything heavier than martinis. He is trim, intelligent, gluten-free, the considerate of guy who wears a serve shirt no matter what day of the week it is. The first time we met, three years ago, he asked me if I knew a good place to do CrossFit. Today, when I ask him how the hospital&#x;s been so far,
How To Entice A Bottom To Verb Love With You?
So you think you are a macho top or a dom and the world starts and ends with you! Reality check, it does not! While there might be bottoms and versatiles out there waiting to jump into bed with you, reality is, there are majority who would wait to see if you really are worth the deal. So TOPS, you may be big between your legs (rare cases) or so-called good in bed. But do you know how to seduce a bottom or a versatile to make care to you?
The first step is to “Smile”
Bottoms go ga-ga over smiles. For that matter, anyone would. So if you know you have a pleasant smile- flaunt it. It is but a genuine grin which will catch his attention at first, and serve him zero in on only you. Smile at something the bottom says, or maybe does. But do not fake it. While you talk to your potential mate, smile away and show him that you really enjoy his company. This shows that you are an all rounder happier person to be with.
Do make frequent eye contact
Your eyes would be probably the first thing a bottom would see when he meets you for t